Blueprint: God’s Design for the
Family
Family Secrets
2 Corinthians 5:14-15
Minor changes can make a _______________ difference in our relationships
Six Secrets That Make a Major Difference
1. _______________
“Irresponsible talk makes a real mess of things, but a reliable reporter is a healing
presence.” (Proverbs 13:17, The Message)
Communication can be challenging! It is a ____________ we must learn and develop.
It includes:
- _______________ skills
- _______________ skills
2. _______________
“with all
humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,”
(Ephesians 4:2, ESV)
“But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full
of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere.” (James 3:17, ESV)
Consideration: _______________________ to what another says, does, feels, wants, and needs
It is the little things that count!
3. _______________
“It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;”
(1 Corinthians 13:5, ESV)
Every relationship has _______________
No matter how much you love
each other, you will always have some things that you _______________ about
The greater your
differences, the greater your potential for _______________
4. _______________
“Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth,” (Proverbs
5:18, ESV)
“Enjoy life with the wife whom you love” (Ecclesiastes 9:9, ESV)
If there were more _______________ in marriages, there would be less marriages in _______________!
As the years go by, we tend to share the ______________ and the ___________________
5. _______________
“Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.”
(Ephesians 4:3, NIV84)
Before marriage opposites _______________, after marriage opposites _______________
Commitment: Being willing to be _______________ until we
work it out
What if God designed marriage not primarily to make you _______________; but to make you
_____________?
6. _______________
“It is only when a husband and wife each live in a purposeful and joyful allegiance
to the plans, purpose, and Lord of the kingdom of God that their marriage can
really be a place of unity, understanding, and love.” Paul Tripp
Continue To Grow In Your Relationships
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service
· Use your phone and the tap card on the seat back
in front of you to go to the Next Steps tab
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